Coping With Tough Times: Practical Tips To Pull Through

Life isn’t always a bed of roses, and most of us will have to overcome significant challenges. Sometimes, things happen and you wonder if you’ll ever feel happy again. The truth is that tough times pass. If you’re finding life difficult at the moment, here are some practical tips to help you pull through. 

Talk about how you feel

This is one of the most difficult steps to take if you’re not a naturally open person, but it can be so beneficial for your mental health and wellbeing. If you’ve lost somebody close to you, you’re dealing with illness in the family, or you’ve broken up with your partner, opening up can help you process and manage your emotions and start to look to the future. Some people find comfort in chatting with friends or family members, but for many, it’s easier to talk to somebody they don’t know. If you see a therapist, or you have online counseling sessions, for example, you may find that you feel more able to be honest and open. If you find it hard to talk, there are other ways to express yourself. You could try writing your thoughts down or use an activity like drawing or painting to channel your emotions. 

Create a to-do list

When you’re anxious or upset, having a mental list and questions whizzing around your head can make the situation worse. In many cases, for example, coping with loss or going through a divorce, it’s hugely beneficial to seek expert help and to work through a list of tasks that need to be completed. It can be incredibly difficult to think about making funeral arrangements or dividing up assets when you’re grieving or you’re distraught, but being proactive can be beneficial. Don’t put pressure on yourself to get jobs done as quickly as possible, but recognize the benefits of crossing those boxes that are stressing you out. If you’re saying goodbye to a loved one, for example, think about how you want to do that and don’t be afraid to ask for help and advice. You can join forces with friends and family members to choose songs, browse cremation urns made from wood, marble or glass and select readings. Working through a list will help you plan in advance, avoid last-minute panics and clear your mind. It’s essential to note that there is help available if you need advice or support. No matter what kind of situation you’re dealing with, you’re never alone. 

Give yourself something to look forward to

There are times in life when it seems impossible to look into the future without feeling worried or upset. It’s perfectly natural to feel like this, but time can be a great healer. As the days and weeks pass, you might find that you’re more open to socializing and getting back into the swing of a routine. When you feel ready, start making plans and connecting with friends and family. Having something to look forward to, whether it’s lunch with friends, a weekend away or a family vacation, can really help to lift your mood and increase positivity. 

We all go through tough times. While it’s not always possible to bounce back quickly, there are steps you can take to try and pull through and see the light at the end of the tunnel.